In love/relationship, do you think one should give chance to the other person even though there is no affection/like feeling in the first place? What about 'didn't try didn't know'?
I've always believe that you cannot develop/nurture love for a person with time. Perhaps it's me being too dreamy or whatever you call it, but I believe that when you meet that someone there has to be some sort of sparks before the relationship can continue, to sustain the relationship or help it develop further.
I mean, otherwise you would have develop feelings (bf/gf type) for so many of your close friends just because you know them long enough.
However, if a person likes you so much that he/she is doing all the right things, but you don't have or don't know whether you have any feelings for this person, do you let him/her go? Without even giving both of you a chance to try and be together?
Of course I'm saying this under the circumstances that nobody take each other for granted. Which is hard to do I know given this realistic world we have now.. But.. There's always a but..
Saw this sentence yesterday and it got me thinking - "Ever feel like you will never find that perfect person? Try looking for a person who is willing to work with you to make perfection."
Very very true words and yet so difficult to do. For a relationship to work, both person must want the same thing, or at least try to work towards the same direction. But when one party wants different thing, does the other person change course (which in the process might change who he/she is) as well? I mean, if this person can do it without holding any grudge or feeling unhappy about it, then it's AWESOME!
But just how many of us can do such a thing? This is the difficult question.
